Hopefully

In the past week alone, I have been asked the same question more times than I had heard it in the past few months. It is a dreaded question for all soon-to-be college seniors, all recent college graduates, and even high school seniors. You know exactly what I'm talking about. It is almost always the first question a new acquaintance asks me after learning my name:

"So, what are you going to do after you graduate?" or "What are you going to do with your life?"

I smile on the outside, but I cringe on the inside. It's something that I know I must think about, but I don't want to. I feel like sticking my fingers in my ears, running around in circles, all the while blabbering: "I can't hear you!"

Too much? Maybe, but there's always going to be a little part of me that doesn't want to grow up. But, at the same time, I don't want to stay in school forever. Homework for eternity? No thank you! I have the perfect solution: stay in college forever, hang out with friends, go to fun classes that have no homework, have a cafeteria that cooks all my meals, play volleyball, throw in some study abroad, and then repeat. Okay, not realistic, but sounds like a ton of fun.

So what's a girl to do when faced with the dreaded question? (Yes, it's so serious it needs to be italicized.)

Well, I answer like this, "I want to go into publishing. Hopefully."

And yes, I always add the "hopefully." The chances of me becoming a book editor are slim to none. I realize that one. The publishing biz is a tough one to crack into, even tougher when I'm really not that fantastic at it. I love reading. I love editing. But I never really thought about the fact that it might not be enough to just love to do something. You kinda have to be good at it. Imagine that.

My problem is this: I like too many things. How was I supposed to narrow it down? If I could have, I would have been an education/history/Spanish/English major with an emphasis in writing/procrastination/marketing/graphic design/photography/volleyball. Impossible, yet, I almost wish it wasn't. Even if it was possible, there is no way in hell I could manage it. Let's be serious, my emphasis in procrastination would kick in.

But let me tell you something I have learned as a not-so-wise guru, ungraduated college senior, and a generalized know-it-all: real life kinda sucks. Eloquent, no?

Unfortunate there really is no other option. Here is a list of things I want to do after graduating, followed by the reason why I can't do it.

1. Travel around the world...and yet I have no money. When someone invents a way to grow money on trees, I am planting a huge one!
2. Invent money growing trees...I'm not at all sciency. But totally possible. Someone...get on that.
3. Play Olympic volleyball...oh wait, my volleyball skills aren't up to par.
4. Be a photographer for National Geographic...travel and photography rolled into one! But, my picture taking skills aren't the greatest.
5. Write a book...As much as I love to write, my own ideas just aren't good. That's why I like to edit. I can tell other people their ideas are terrible. (Okay, joke. But, seriously.)
6. Become the world's ultimate translator for sarcasm...totally doable. I'm already half way there.

Of course, that list could go forever. I still haven't given up my dream of being a bizillionaire because of my fantabulous singing skills. I just had to put those dreams on hold while I went to school.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy being an adult. I'm making money (well, the little money I get paid on minimum wage), I get to make my own decisions (as long as the government doesn't take that away), and I get to start my own life (as long as mommy and daddy say that's okay).

But to be completely honest, I would be very happy with graduating, finding a job, getting married, and having the 2.5 kids everyone is supposed to have. But, there will probably be a part of me that thinks, why didn't I do this when I was younger? This is another reason I'm very glad I studied abroad--I got my chance to experience another life. Although, it just whet my appetite for traveling.

This is all probably a little too serious for someone that isn't even 22 yet, but it's something to think about. I don't have many regrets in my life, and I would like to keep it that way. I have my entire life ahead of me, but it feels like the whole world is pushing back saying, "[Fill in the appropriate action] now!"

Everything has to be done this moment. But why? I want to enjoy my life, relax a little. And this may all sound very privileged, and maybe it is. I am used to living a good life. My parents were nice enough to provide everything for me. Because of that, I was able to go to a good school, study abroad, and do what I want with my life. And for that I'm very thankful.

Here is something else that I have learned: real life can be really fantastic. My friends and family are amazing. I love them all very much. I am so blessed to be surrounded by people that love me. I think it can be summed up by a very insightful Beatles song:

All you need is love, all you need is love,

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

When I look around, I see a really amazing life. I can be what I want to be, when I want to be it. Back off, world. Here's my advice (just because I'm giving it, doesn't mean you should take it): do what you want because you love it, when you want to.

So the next time someone asks me the question, I'll smile, and answer, "I want to go into publishing. Hopefully."

Book Review: Inconvenient Marriage of Charlotte Beck

Charlotte Beck, a girl on the verge of adulthood, is having trouble meeting social protocol. A seventeen year old American making her social debut in London, Charlotte cannot seem to keep her independent spirit in check. As the only daughter to a wealthy English business man living in Colorado, Charlotte has never wanted for anything, except an education. With an affinity for numbers, Charlotte hopes to attend college for a degree in mathematics and then run her father's business. Her father has other plans.

Marriage.

Charlotte wants to have a career before family. At the time, the proposition was almost unheard of. Enter the male lead: rich boy and astronomer Alex Hambly. An Englishman holding his crumbling family together, Alex needs to marry in order to save his family from financial ruin. Charlotte and Alex drive each other crazy (as the characters always do), but Charlotte's father makes them an offer too tempting to turn down.

If they agree to marry, Charlotte is free to pursue a degree for four years and he will pay off the debts the Hambly family owes. Reluctantly, the two agree, secretly planning to annul the marriage as soon as they can. And as these stories always do, feelings change, the characters try to deny it, but in the end realize that the marriage may not have been so inconvenient after all.

My reasoning for picking this book was simple: I didn't really want to read any of the other choices I was given on my blogging for books program. I knew exactly how this one would turn out from the title of the book, and I was right. By Kathleen Y'Barbo, the book is written decently well. The style is simple and straight to the point, but there was quite a bit of humor. A lot of cliches (A little annoying when you have heard them all. Some people can pull that off, others can't. Y'Barbo is in the latter category).

It is your typical romance story. Girl and boy meet. Drive one another up a wall. Vow never to speak to one another. Thrust together against their will. Arranged marriage. Happily ever after. The end.

Oh, I probably should have said spoiler alert! Oh well. You probably should have figured it by now anyway.

Overall, I'm not going to say it was a bad book, because it wasn't. It was just way too predictable. I have read all of that before. If you have some time to kill, want a romance, and don't really care about the plot, go ahead and pick it up. If I hadn't been given it for free, I probably wouldn't have bought it.

2 1/2 stars (out of 5)

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